Love can be sweet too

I always feel that love can be hurting when you put yourself totally in it and that you could lose yourself in it too. I did lose myself in some of my past relationship and somehow taken for granted in someway. Guess when you're too giving, people only expect you to give and they themselves do not give any. Of course, I'm still giving what I could, but also wishing that people do not take it for granted. 

Maybe I just happen to be unlucky and met into jerks. But not to forget, there are really nice guys out there too. And yes, I've met my Mr Right. Might be too early to say and be sure about it, but time will show. After all, time always shows someone's true self.

Nowadays, relationship are killed by people who keep track of every whatsapp last seen online timing, having to seek approval for every little thing one wants to do. Somehow it doesn't lead to anywhere good. I believe both parties should have mutual understand and also some of their personal time/space, if they need. When both parties are happy with each other and also the time they have on their own, things go a longer way.

I've learned that as long as we don't have have expectation, we won't meet into disappointment. If you don't expect something, apparently there's nothing for you to be disappointed about right? When you have no expectations, thing that happen turns into surprises instead. It makes your world happier and more colourful doesn't it?

Just like a typical picture taken like this.

Can turn into this.

Surprise from my love! 

Currently my bed time partner :)

This cutey will be holding on to my heart 

I understand that I have change from:

• loving my man more to loving myself more instead *highly important!*
• the sticky and all sweet girl to the non-sticky and more cold/cool, down to earth girl (no longer fairytale, 长大了)
• the all time wanting to know where is my man to trusting that he know what he is doing and if there's a need for me to know, he'll let me know
• the girl who ask about everything to one who starts reading body language and trying to decipeher it and ask if I feel that something is amiss and not just wait
• being totally open to believing that everyone has a little secret in them that they want to keep it to their own (maybe?)

Nowadays, courting no longer works like this but somehow, the little girl inside of every lady would wish for something list this to happen, isn't it? *wink*

Or maybe we should say, how many guys out there are willing to take the extra mile for the little smile on their lady?

To keep a true relationship going happily, I guess the only ingredients really needed are trust, honesty and understanding.

And to my Mr Right, thanks for appearing in my life and sorry for the long wait you've been through. All the happiness and smiles you brought to me was real, wasn't just a dream, and it was warm. I truly hope things turn out well for the both of us and that we do reach the "happily ever after" stage. And of course, I want you to be happy always! with me of course :p *Hugs & Kisses*